Money, Fitness, Grooming, Humor, and the status of your friends. – without being intimidating. And in that order.
Be calm. Patient. Give her time to feel, and choose. Don’t try hard. It means you’re desperate.
You specialize in her genetics. She specializes in identifying evidence of your ‘value’.
There is no shortcut to money, fitness, grooming, humor.
That is what all the ‘man-education’ is reducible to.